Soulmate ? Karmic Partner ? Life partner ? Twin flame ? What the difference ? It’s all confusing me. How do I attract divine love.

 Soulmate ? Karmic Partner ? Life partner ? Twin flame ? What the difference ? It’s all confusing me. How do I attract divine love. 

7 Tips on Attracting your life Partner.

Being a very private person, & someone who has bad anxiety sharing my personal business isn't easy for me. However, i have realized it is a spiritual obligation that i have been sent into this realm for, to aid with rebalancing humanities frequency of love.

Soulmate ? Karmic Partner ? Life partner ? Twin flame ? What the difference ? It’s all confusing me. How do I attract divine love.

One thing i have been VERY adamant about since i begin to unveil my spiritual privacy is the goal is to be with your life-partner. A life partner relationship is the deepest connection you can have with another being while on earth. Having a twin flame doesn't necessarily mean they are your life partner, having a soulmate doesn't necessarily mean it is a romantic relationship.  With so much misleading information on the internet i've decided to briefly break down the difference between each to help you all gain more clarity on your spiritual journeys.

Karmic Partner : A karmic relationship is a romantic bond that is formed with someone in your soul group and it's a relationship designed to heal past life lessons and pain. Karmic relationships are the type of soulmate relationships that no one wants, but everyone has.


Twin flame : Twin flame relationships are not necessarily about being together, but about divine mission and unlocking each others indigo. There tends to be a lot of confusion about what a “twin flame” relationship really is. Unlike “soul mates,” which are our perfect matches (or our spiritual family) twin flames are our perfect mirrors. Relationships with twin flames tend to be on-again-off-again, intensely passionate, and sometimes intensely painful.

Many people have asked me whether it’s possible to have more than one twin flame. My response is that it could be possible, but I doubt it. As the word “twin” implies, we only have one twin flame in this life. Sometimes we don’t even meet our twin flame in this incarnation, but rest assured, we have always been connected to them on the level of Spirit.

Twin flames are our mirrors. They reflect back to us our every strength, insecurity, weakness and shadow element. The purpose of the twin flame relationship is to help us undergo soulwork and become the best version of ourselves possible. But here’s the thing, at first twin flame relationships can be intense and tumultuous. This can carry on for many years. But once both egos surrender to their purging and purification, the gifts of humility, empathy and unconditional love are finally obtained.

Our twins reflect the disowned parts of ourselves; they are the yins to our yangs, the suns to our moons, and the light to our darkness. They propel us into shadow work, deep self-discovery and the fulfillment of our potential.

Your twin flame could be your greatest dream or your worst nightmare (or both). They will test you, provoke you and love you fiercely all at once.



Spiritually, soulmates usually play a major role in your development. It is possible for soulmates to be platonic, romantic and/or sexual in nature. You can also have multiple soulmates in one lifetime, hence the many love triangles we see and experience.

There are a few different types of soulmate. Sol narrows them down in this article, but you can read a summarized version here:

Soul friends — Soul friends are very similar to kindred spirits. However, the essential difference between the two is that kindred spirits are more personality-based, and soul friends are more essence-based. In other words, soul friends share our deepest dreams, values and drives (not just similar personalities and tastes). This is the most common type of soulmate.

Soul teachers — As the name suggests, soul teachers appear in our lives to help teach us vital life lessons. Sometimes these lessons are taught deliberately, and other times these lessons are unintentional. Soul teachers often appear in the form of ex-lovers, family members, friends and even enemies.

Soul companions — This type of soulmate is a combination of both friend and teacher. In fact, soul companions most closely match people’s perception of what a “soul mate” is. As confidants, soul companions deeply understand, love and cherish us. The depth and blissful harmony that you experience in this relationship will outshine any other that you’ve ever had.


Life partner  

Your lifepartner  is a complement to you. When you meet her or him you both feel like you've known each other forever, and there's a deep bond. The communication is usually very easy, eye-opening and based on similar interests. Usually there will be for both of you a learning lesson, shared activity and growth as a person. There will also be a deeper understanding and more expression of your authentic self.

This is the type of life partner that you are likely the most familiar with. If you’re monogamous, this is the one individual you have made a romantic commitment to. If you’re polyamorous, this could be multiple people.

Either way, this type of partner is defined by deep levels of emotional, mental, and physical intimacy, though the exact meaning can vary from arrangement to arrangement. You’re both ready. The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing, and what mostly determines whether a relationship will work is whether or not both people are ready for it to.

With your life partner, You don’t think about it as much as you live it – overthinking a relationship is what happens when you have to dig for proof that it’s not doomed. . You want the same things in the long-term. It doesn’t matter how convinced you are that you’re meant for one another, if one person wants kids and the other doesn’t, if one person wants to commit and the other doesn’t, if one wants to live somewhere the other doesn’t, etc., all the conviction in the world won’t save it. You don’t find yourself trying to piece together “evidence” that they love you. You don’t have so much subconscious doubt that you feel you need to prove it to yourself, or anybody else.

You can voice your concerns about the relationship. The first and best way to determine whether or not a red flag is a deal-breaker is to see whether or not you can talk to the person about it. Also in a life partner relationship, Your fears are irrational. (For example: you’re not afraid that it will fall apart because they say they don’t want to commit, you’re afraid you’ll lose them – even though they say they love you – because losing people you love is scary.) This sounds totally backwards, but if your fears are more irrational, it’s better: they’re not based in reality.

If you stripped away the sexual part of your relationship, you’d still be best friends. Your life partner will redefine what you thought your “type” was more than they fit into what you thought you always wanted.


Rather it be your Soulmate or your Twin Flame the goal is to e with your life partner, learn and heal from the Karmics and attract who is uniquely designed for you in this lifetime.

Here are seven tips on how to attract your life partner:

1. Know yourself.

Many people don’t attract what really fulfills them because they don’t really know what they like and want. If you don’t really know yourself, you won’t recognize your soul mate. Get honest with yourself about what you really value and appreciate in your life. The more honest you are about your values, principles and beliefs, the more you open yourself up to attracting the life partner who is also a soul mate.

2. Be yourself.

Take an inventory of your life to see if you're following the pack or following your heart. If you know what you really need and want in a mate but settle for what you're told you "should" want, then you'll never be truly fulfilled. The more you can be yourself, the more you will attract partnerships that are truly right for you.

3. Live your true resonance.

To attract your LIFE PARTNER, it isn't enough just to be yourself. You need to surround yourself with what you love and do, and participate in activities that reflect your authentic self. Go to places that really interest you and bring you joy. We attract by resonance. The more resonance we have in our lives, the more we attract people who “match us,” our likes, activities and lifestyle.

4. Be a whole person.

If you're living from a place of wholeness, you will attract whole people, rather than another half that's looking to be completed. You don’t want to be completed in a relationship. You want to be complemented. Your soul mate should be equal to you, not below or above you.

5. Be soul led.

Don't focus only on the outer package. Go beyond the physical looks and types. Go for soul qualities. The soul qualities are the qualities and characteristics that are genuine and authentic. When you're "soul led," you not only attract a person who excites you physically, but also one who appeals to you mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

6. Follow your own inner rhythm.

Some people are fast paced, and other people slower paced. The more in sync we are within ourselves, the more in sync we will be with our soul mate. A relationship has its own flow based on how each individual relates to the other. This is another reason relationship or dating rules ultimately don't work. We can't relate in a recipe or cookie cutter fashion. If you follow your unique flow in life you will naturally attract other people with a similar flow.

7. Live a life of meaning.

When you live a life that has meaning and purpose, you're like a magnet of light. This light attracts happy people who love their life. The soul mate who is your life partner will be someone who is excited about his or her life, and who feels fulfilled. Your lifepartner come from the areas of your life that are the most fulfilling and interesting to you. This is why a relationship with a soul mate is so compatible and fulfilling.

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