I remain adamant that we can choose to stand up and build regardless of what ever circumstance we find ourselves…. Most times it is unbearable especially when it has to do with a loss of a loved one. For a long time, I wondered how it felt loosing that one person you were destined to be with for eternity, the father of your kids and the one who would comfort you at night, hold you and make you feel like the woman that you are. The emptiness, and loneness that comes with it…. Phew! You can never really understand it, until you experience it first class.